aknitwit ([info]aknitwit) wrote,
@ 2008-07-24 12:46:00
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Cat Hell
 I parted with both of my cats this week, one voluntarily, one not.   The 'not' involved my girl-cat, Fiona, who was diagnosed with some sort of intestinal cancer--bad outlook--and whom we had put to sleep on Monday.   I held her while the shot was administered, and she was gone in seconds.  My big tough husband stood on the vet's porch during this procedure, unable to watch, crying softly.  
Fiona is not pictured here.  She was not very photogenic, and I have only a couple of good pictures of her;  in my favorite, she is curled up in my underwear drawer.  She was a small tortoise-shell, sort of bitchy, but always sweet to me.  She was mostly quiet, but she had a cute vocabulary.  The declarative was 'map', the interrogative was 'mrrr?', and she had a little trill, like 'brrrt', mostly food-related.   I will miss her terribly.

Her step-brother Magick, pictured here, is another story.  Because of our impending move, we had decided to have our friend Sue adopt one or both of our cats, though there was always a chance we would, maybe, keep one.  We would see how our two got along with Sue's resident cat.  I secretly hoped my bitchy Fiona would need to be reclaimed and brought to Sunnyvale, but suddenly that option was lost to me.  Then Magick got very mopey without his companion, and I could only hope that he would adjust to a new girl-cat.  I took him to Sue's on Tuesday, and she is slowly getting the two cats used to each other, giving me daily updates, and it looks like this transition might work.  Sue has had many cats, she has a huge house and many resources, so things are looking up.  I'll be cat-sitting for her a couple of times before we move, so I'll see Magi in his new environment.  It will be a long goodbye.  And I am very hopeful.  But it's been a hell of a week.  



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[info]tronpublic
2008-07-24 08:35 pm UTC (link)
*hugs*

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[info]aknitwit
2008-07-25 08:06 pm UTC (link)
I'll be wantin' a personal hug in a few weeks...

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[info]racerxmachina
2008-07-24 08:59 pm UTC (link)
I'm really sorry about both your partings. When you come up here, Alice and Dorothy say you can come kitty visit, and they will try to be brave and not hide.

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[info]aknitwit
2008-07-25 08:07 pm UTC (link)
I look forward to meeting your kitties, and knitting with you!

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[info]deirdremoon
2008-07-24 09:24 pm UTC (link)
I'm still so sorry about Fi. You know Magi wants somebody to terrorize, so I also hope he works out at Sue's.

Dad sent me a great picture of Fi a while back... remind me to give a copy to you if you don't still have it. On the floor near the rocker, on her back with a funny little smile.

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[info]aknitwit
2008-07-25 08:08 pm UTC (link)
Yes, save that pic for me, just in case.

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[info]slothman
2008-07-24 11:19 pm UTC (link)
My condolences.

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[info]aknitwit
2008-07-25 08:09 pm UTC (link)
Thanks--maybe I can see your babies now and then.

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[info]slothman
2008-07-26 02:58 am UTC (link)
Of course! You’re welcome to come by any time you need to get your fix of kitty fluff.

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[info]jackkansas
2008-07-25 12:06 am UTC (link)
I am so sorry for your loss. I hope your Fiona has found the spirits of LCB's and my Misty and Meeri, and that even now they are maneuvering for the favored spot on the bookcase or bed or drawer, the eternal positional chess that cats play.

LCB and I usually get rescue kitties, which can make for a strange mix. Japhy, our black-and-white polydactyl male, is almost like a dog in his eagerness for compansionship, and he has been roundly rejected by both of the crabby females he's been thrown together with — Meeri, LCB's cherished Abyssinian, and Gogo, the Tonya Harding of cats. But they learn to get along, and, as I tease LCB, "they keep each other alert." But lately Gogo has been tolerating Japhy's attentions a bit more than usual — he was licking her head the other night while she was sleeping on my hip, and she was tolerating it with quiet dignity.

A posting today by [info]anam_moon indicates that there is a sudden need for foster homes in the San Jose area, so you're coming at a good time. Somewhere there's another wonderful cat that needs you!

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[info]aknitwit
2008-07-25 08:11 pm UTC (link)
Give your acrobatic cat a special hug from me!

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[info]devonapple
2008-07-25 12:16 am UTC (link)
My heart goes out to you both for having to say goodbye to your kitties in this way.

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[info]aknitwit
2008-07-25 08:13 pm UTC (link)
I know you've just been through a loss too, thanks for your good wishes, and hug your Kayla for me.

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[info]rhylar
2008-07-25 04:16 am UTC (link)
*hug*

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[info]aknitwit
2008-07-25 08:14 pm UTC (link)
Hugs back!

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